Friends are first before one yes....
IVE JUST MISSED AN OPPORTUNITY TO TRAVEL TO JAPAN FOR FREE!! Ive just missed the deadline for freaking minutes!! I felt so sad to the verge of tears cuz I worked kinda hard on my essay aaaaiiiissssshhhhh frkng time zones!!!>8[ Have a nice winter New York!! >8U

Oooh myyy...my heart..was loosing its strength until my friends voice came to my head "watch the panda video"

I draggued my heart to watch it...





& it revived again X"D I did cry ..but of cuteness :"D Love pandas~ Red Pandas are a fave~

To be honest...I had a month to do this entry...so what hurt the most ...was my irresponsability and lack of dicipline...I rebel against myself so much...enough! frkng procrastiviri time zones &... cutey pandas >8U

"Better opportunities will surely come to you" quote ama. So Ill believe~ & frkng prcrastination better not come in my way again yo! >8/

Tho honestly...What truly refreshed my heart was an honest hug I received from a friend. A strong hug, thankful hug...it felt warming~(Ive never seen a guy get so many chocolates to take home for a talk XD Cute~) Then another friend who will dedicate one of my fave songs from Remy Zero to me...truly those are details that I appreciate so much...more than a hallmark letter xD Thank You for existing~

Now I shall go study music for this weeks finals...or pretend to while I rest my eyes *(= .=)*

p.s I sooo want a day off...
p.s.s wtfudge Gazette?8U 116 for a dvd?? >8[ Fine. Ill just go GazeDiet~ for the nxt 15 days...$5 a day - what I do to watch you multiangle >D It better be frkng worth it! >8U
p.s.s.s Happy December~
p.s.s.s.sssssssssss Writing will become h20 from now on 8O FIRED UP

"A good relationship is like a good song...you enjoy it wherever you are" -Rika <3

...frkng time zones...good thing I had sugar for this lemonade~ >D

Im in love...with Japan...fo sure~ If I ever fall out of love with Japan then...Ill loose a piece of me along with it~ & cry while I eat Gyoza while reminiscing on all the good memories I had with Japan & unconciously fall back in love with it~ XD

mygoodness blissful day! Thank God! <3 (wasnt even gonna go, last minute choice)

Just came back from a day with my Japanese school outing to Ensenada where there was a celebration of the 400 years for the ongoing relationship between Japan & Mexico. Being able to be part of this event was <3 They treated us so well! food was delicious! Even the green tea~ <3 Im sooo full...& cold XD but my heart is warm :3 lol My camera's out of charge so ill just post my day morrow... sunday! woo! like sundays~

my goodness what a day <3 Its really something how...whenever im surrounded by Japan's atmosphere i feel...so confortable~ & whenever there is something going on with my school it feels like a family reunion XD; Its been fun~ <3

One moment i wont forget...Hiroko san (my senseii) dragging me to practice my japanese with three japanese guys lmao I need to practice soooo bad XD; Then...

"Sasshin blabla desuka?" I stare at one of them not sure he was asking for a picture with him or to take a picture of him until his friend took the camera & I nodded in agreement. "Ahh Ureshii~" he said while laughing I not processing it until after the picture was taken xD *points at me* "Kireii desu ne~ hontou ima Ureshii(happy)~" while placing his hand on his heart. "Arigatou!" I laughed & ofcourse blushing like always, gave my thanks back...

Being called Kireii...I prefer it over Kawaii... I was clean & pure looking to them so strangely happy :"D But the moment itself was very funny...Ill give some time to post it morrow for memory~


Ah today really felt good~ <3 I learned much tday~ I could say as of today, Japan is my second home~ Please welcome me back Japan ;D Now time to sleep...Ive hardly slept anything since last night go out w friends...getting home @ 4 am & waking up at 6 am isnt a good idea...

*rubbing eyes childishly* "Oyasumi Nasai~" with all glamour wasted after a 4 hour cold ride in the bus back xD;
Hiroko san laughed said something in Japanese like good bye , rest well~ as we got off the bus...I sooo like her <3

& Ive had this song on my mind for today...




Soo looking forward to that movie~

p.s & whats with Reita having one of these? XD



soo cute~

After Japan news...the excitement continued~
Im quite decided even tho I have determination on hold, to major on music. I love its language, the infinite ways of working with what has motivated, changed us through time, big part is music. So being able to work with it would be very interesting. Most of my friends deal with creativeness, some of them already pursuing some way in music & aiming on studying in a conservatory. San Francisco is a very nice one in all U.S. But in difference with them, I am rather pleased with studying at a regular university (San Diego) & work my way from there. I had time to spare so I went ahead into the counseling section of my college & searched up my music teacher's background. He studied at long beach so I went ahead & researched that up as well. I was surprised to read everything they have for music majors...but i flared up when I read just last year, the University of Long Beach music department has been modified & named Bob Cole Conservatory. It is now a Conservatory! 8D So close to me...wow 8D They do auditions & entree exams which are quite hard because of the seat demand but..I promise myself to work hard on whatever I do, difficulty is a challenge so I must fight it ;D When I felt flared up I confirm once more that...whatever you are passionate about you must carry on with it or else youre not living well~ Because it is You afterall, whatever work you do , it is you portrayed on it~

moving on~ I exited such place of found bliss then went to pick up my friend from her class. As she came out she suddenly exclaimed "Guess what??" "What?"O.o "Kim Hyun Joong, T.O.P, Jae Joong are close friends!" :D "....we are gonna be sisters in law! 8D"
roflmao...yea this kinda moments reminds us we're lacking seriousness. Im a KHJ admirer since BOF ..or before & she's been a T.O.P admirer since G-Dragons Boy video (GD<3) & ofcourse we're both cosharing likings for Hero since a year or so ago & T.O.P has recently caught my eye as well. Ruki/Aoi are still my TOP tho XD; LET ME BE

another squirt of bliss fell on me when i discovered this vid <3


& this~ XD



KHJ is such a keen guy <3

Talking about guys...It's odd how we are getting along better now. I dont feel I see him in that way anymore. I do have a certain care for him but...I dont heart for him like I used to..maybe it was time & the moments in between us that made it change...but I did become worried when he mentioned he's traversing low moods...loosing to motivation. I told him we would talk about it soon enough...there's another friend whos going thru the same thing...hold it together people~ hold it together...storms dont last long~ We have all gone thru it & still do at times but its just a matter of pausing, taking a deep breath & looking at your sides..there are others whom you are their support & are your support. We are going thru hard times together~ When I found this song...I felt very moved~



& I had this thought come to my mind...so Ill go ahead & quote myself "Life is not concrete, it is not simple, it does not contain itself in a cycle, life is the knowledge you aquire, work on it, therefore live what you have learned...It is the vision that lies before you to experience, Life is an endless opportunity, a clean canvas for your ideas, yet the ink of life will always be Love, its only true vitality"

Now for laughter...a very close friend of mine that I havent seen for a while requested me to send him candy...but I ah ...know he LOVES Peanutbutter & Jelly so I went ahead & bought him a jar of it & was going to send it on mail but I forgot his adress XD; The highlight of this was the burst of laughter the mail person had when she saw I was only sending ...a jar of peanut butter & jelly lol + this video on an email:




I KNOW. DRUMROLL PLEASE XD

Yesterrr-day~

Excitement overpowered it~

I listen to MPR news sometimes early morning when im making line to go to class why? this is why...



RED CLIFF with Jhon Woo as director & Takeshi Kanehiro <3!



I LOVE his acting <3!-LOVED House of Flying Daggers-
I immediately told my friend "lets go! go!" & was even planning to ditch class for it xD; but the movie is not yet on! wtfudge?! >8U
MPR went ahead & gave like a 10 minute section on it even the director had its time to talk~ This movie is based on true events & it is a movie that lasts 5 hours! but for America they gave an edited version of two hours...thats because our butts cant take it or what?! I want the 5 hour one! >XU When others are looking forward for Ninja Assasin or New Moon - no comments- Im looking forward for a REAL -hopefully epic- movie! <3

"Hollywood should stop ripping off Asian movies & turning them into hollywood recycled fakes, they should instead focus on making them as real as they are" MPR spokesperson comparison on Ninja Assasin & Red Cliff 8U

I cant deny curiosity bites on watching Ninja Assasin...

But the real shock came when....

"Theres something very different happening in Japan-"
"Woo Japan!" 8D -turns up volume-
"We interviewed some men in Harajuku so they could explain to us this changing event thats taking Japan society on surprise"
"What event? probably new fashion" x3
"Japan men are turning hervibores-"O.o
"-& are becoming less interested in woman," gay? o_o
"Many would think they are becoming homosexual but it is not like that at all.
sex has become an uneccesary thing for them-" 8U
"I wont approach a girl unless she approaches me. I wont find interest unless she finds interest in me first, but id rather be friends with her." -japanese guy commented.
"Many expect men to be interested in expensive cars & alcohol but all i want to do is cook, sew, travel, anything more peaceful & what is thought womanlike" -another japanese guy comment. "Its just that woman now want to work & earn more money then men..they have become scary~" this is a prooblem triggered by us without a doubt...
Heres an article I found on it http://www.slate.com/id/2220535/
DO YOUR CAKES, COOK, SEW, HELP ME WITH CHORES, WHATEVER YOU WANT BB BUT DONT NEGLECT US WOMAN & DISLIKE SEX D8 Im not the only one in panic, Japan society is with the economy having declining rates on consumption in cars & other things men would be interested in usually & birthrate. 70% of men are now hervibores!...I turned around & told my friend "I say YES to Japan's return next year" >XD; Dont know why Gazette came up to mind afterwards imagined them all sewing their customes, cooking along with Kai, making their own cakes for others then going out on stage to ROAAARRR~ ♥

A year ago I met a guy who was a hervibore...he was into the emo thing so I thought "trends are becoming offline lately..." but paid no further attention to it..but now Japan?!

I had talked with a guyfriend the day before about how men are lately. "They are lacking responsibility, its like dating a girl nowadays..you find almost nothing new in them..." I said.
he replied "Woman are also responsible for this, wanting to be like men they have made us laid back & watch woman take over"
I honestly agree...what have we done to men... D"X
For me its fine if they love cooking, its fine if they want to learn how to sew, plant, w/e as long as im still protected with them, feel safe with them... I just dont want to be a maaan (; A ;) & im still single...why does this happen now?! (> A <)

btw I disliked the comment the interviewer for Ruki said in that adult magazine "The first reason why Gazette is so popular is because of their good looks"
"Aiish what is this??"
My friend held silence looking at me...
"Its...kinda true....isnt it?" >D

Honestly -this admirer here, moi, atashi, me, yo- love them first because of their way to exel with their hard work & vision, their personalities, & lastly their looks...ah~ is it us again woman who have triguered men to become metrosexual? Aaaah~

I did sense Ruki was bothered by this...love you Rukiiii♥ just dont go herbivore on me...

Its class sign up time!
....& im a bit late
anyways~
there are moments in life , that point out to you "FIRE"
On my way to convincing an english teacher to let her crash her class for winter...
"Ok, thanks ill just assist on winter"
"attend"
"....eh?"
"Its attend"
"Oh yes...attend xD"
"You know what to assist means?"
"To-"
"help"
"Ah~ yes~ sorry , see? I need your english class xD Its just that I get my spanish, english, japanese & now some korean in there mixed up .."
her smile spread from ear to ear, her eyes suddenly smiling along..."where are you taking Japanese?"
"In Mex, there's a Japanese community."
"Aww nice! I love Japan!"
"Re..really?" xD
"Yes! Ive been there various times. I have a friend over there & I absolutely love the culture. If I didnt have my establishments here I would go live over there without a doubt. Would you?"

"I would xD but ...I would first have to go live for a few months then decide if Japan is my land to stay xD"

-both talking about our times over there then....
"My friend got married to a Japanese man & now shes been living for 9 or 10 years over there. She's a free lance writer, writes alot about japan to other countries & does other kinds of writing.Shes doing very well~"
"Nice!" -feeling like when you see your ideal before you- "I would love to do that."
"Whats your major?"
"Music"
"Oh I thought you were working with a business major because of your interest in languages. You would be great in an area like that."
Thinks for a moment...realizing....
"I think my thing is music & writing"
"Take journalism then & try it out "
"I will!"
I came out so fired up I could conquer the world with my radiance xD Japan...what should I do with you?
I absolutely love this song <3 G-Dragon -Butterfly (Makes me fall in love with love & be dreamingly stupid about it xD )

I still have my eyes on you Gazette...looking forward to your DVD(almost here! & I with no money xD; )

te quiero

I-M S-O S-E-XY *wink wink* says:

i like you like a warm fudge chocolate brownie ;3

I meant love o_o I dont like chocolate i love chocolate 
 

Compliment ?
She walks over the soda stand for she's looking for a thirst quencher & that's the only stand that holds such treat. Her heart starts racing until it pounds heavily against her chest when she spots such pleasure before her eyes...then as she's about to part her lips to call out to it another face comes in between her pleasurable thirst quencher & her. "Yes?" "I...would like sake." "Sa-ke?"

She don't think straight, no no no, she don't think straight says:

your writings always end up making me horny

I-M S-O S-E-XY *wink wink* says:

"we dont sell such thing" the other feminine bittersweet voice replies. "Oh we do" another voice reaches her ears attracting her attention immediately ...who is this? she thinks amused by his easy seducement on her. "Would you like some?" "Yes...please." she smiles at her newfound pleasure....Yes please..she repeats in her mind. He holds out the glass filled with sake & she reaches out

ahahahahaha shut up  >XD
 

  
 Story...

 She walks over the soda stand for she's looking for a thirst quencher & that's the only stand that holds such treat. Her heart starts racing until it pounds heavily against her chest when she spots such pleasure before her eyes...then as she's about to part her lips to call out to it another face comes in between her pleasurable thirst quencher & her.
"Yes?"
"I...would like sake."
"Sa-ke?"
"we dont sell such thing" the other feminine bittersweet voice replies.
"Oh we do" another voice reaches her ears attracting her attention immediately ...who is this? she thinks amused by his easy seducement on her.
"Would you like some?"
"Yes...please." she smiles at her newfound pleasure....Yes please..she repeats in her mind. He holds out the glass filled with sake & she reaches out wanting to touch him in anyway possible to prove his not another illusion her mind might be playing on her but he lays the glass down before her just as she misses his hand. "Here you go" he smiles gently at her pulling at her heart strings "enjoy~"
She picks it up & takes it to her lips without taking her eyes of him. The cold drink makes way into her mouth tasting bittersweet ...yes she had fallen once more into it.

 Try 2- Everyone on the table was wrapped into an unceasing conversation over entertainment. But her entertainment was not in words or sitting at that table. Her heart's entertainment was just outside probably quenching the thirst of other woman. She tried recalling that face & then..."Ah....it's him." She closed her eyes & sighed. "That other man's younger brother."She opened her eyes again trying to become less selfish & get involve by the ongoing conversation. "Forget it...them both might go same ways" she thought to herself but...she was still thirsty...
"Excuse me I'll be right back" She called out to defeaned ears & went in search of...him. But to her surprise....

She halted at his sight...at that man's sight who had been her heart's worry for the last couple of moments. Ever since she had encountered with him at the same place they had met. Nevertheless, she took up courage & approached him nonchalantly..or she pretended to be as so.But her heart couldnt hold back as he lifted up his gaze & met eyes with her. She must have stopped breathing for a brief moment & those around her might have heard the crack in her heart . His face....those eyes..revived those emotions that had belong only to him...what happened? she asked in thought as time resumed its course "Pina colada please" she spoke fast, betrayed by the nerves that tookover her. He just turned away & called out to a woman next to her. "Mom , a pina colada over here" & walked on to another client leaving her more confused...what did i do to you? she whispered under her breath....She turned back to the drink she had ordered & lifted up her gaze to the one that held it. It was her ...again. "Here you go." She took it & took one sip. It was still bittersweet.

-Try 3- yet she wasnt giving up...all worked up yet with a small ray of hope that shone through her heart she got up once again from the table & walked over to the drink stand. This time it was that other face...that graceful smile that received her stitched her heart up & made it work properly again. "Sake please"
"Another one?" he laughed soflty.
"Well its good" she responded his laugh with a much softer & embarrased one.
"If you serve more than you should dont worry about it" she added jokingly. He looked at her for a moment , his smile making way for a laugh. She watched his back as he went for the bottle. She was completely withdrawn to him even tho her past lover was just feet away from her. She had just found Sake more addicting....
He turned towards her at having found the cold bottle & got a cup to serve it chilled. She watched the way he served it...so gently with his hands. He looked up at her. "Here" She took it from his hand this time yet she wasnt lucky enough to touch his hand. "Thanks." She drank from it again & ...this time it tasted sweeter. She smiled as she turned away from him , nobody noticing that secret smile that dressed her lips. Her heart was just receiving another guest ...looking forward to his stay.

Yet she did now that that love would be a ghostly love, maybe not even love but infatuation, for she knew he would not see him daily, nor weekly, nor monthly....but maybe until next held event where they had met..taking up to maybe a year or so...time would be a test of patience....   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love note continues~ 

@ Japanese + Mexico 400 years of friendship celebration day 6 - Gamez
Basically  there were 4 contests
*Jeopardy   *Bingo Kanji, Hiragana, Katakana*Atari* <--Viri participant 8D  *Cosplay*   *Karaoke*
On which all classes from A - E (advanced) were divided into groups. Obachan was there (one of the first japanese woman to live here) & the main members (& families) of the Japanese association (community).

Arrived a bit late...
"Hey over here!" Another from my group called out to me. I rush over "Heeeeyy what we doing??" 8D
"Jeopardy were winning" :D
"Oh oh fun!" :3 
*looks around & freezes* (O.O) two chairs away ..hes right there....
dont mind it -_-
"yay we got one more!" :D
"Oh really?? yay!" 8D *Im here to have fun*  
"Whats the answer?" Another girl , sitting right infront of me called out to us.
"Oh oh mmm say talking paper!" XD the girl next to me suggests.
"talking paper hwahwahwa" X'D I laugh it out.
"Talking paper correct answer! Japan's talking cards featured~"
"we were right?! 8"D AHAHAHAtalkingpaperwhat" X"D
*dawns on me* wait :"D....that girl in front of me...

flashback 1 1/2 years ago<<
Two Japanese guys who are for visit are conversing with a girl. Polo takes me to them & introduces me. 
"Nihongo ga Wakarimasuka?"
"Chotto" ^^;
"Chotto?" Guy smiles "Kawaii"
(o///w//o)
girl looks at me  & smiles too. 
Polo "Viri you want to come with us to Sakura restaurant?"
"Oh I cant" ^^; "some other time"
*next class*
"So how did it go?" :D I asked. 
"It went fun" ^^ Polo tells the night "Then my (japanese) friends bugged her to send them both pics of her in bikini"

Present >>

...is that girl back then o_o not only that...she's...

Smiles at someone two chairs away from me.

She's....he's girlfriend! O_O How come I didnt recognize her before?! (_ _);;;

All morning in the same group haha :"D with him along HAHA X"D.....

She kept evading my attention until later when there was no choice but to talk (about the contests) xD

then...there was a moment we(him & I)  were left alone...

"......."

AWKWARD

Anyways~ My love life is filled of laughter XD; I live moments that just shouldnt be like getting along with girlfriends X"D

2 days ago....
*Im giving up on him(another guy) its ok Im not that into him any longer* *feels free & proud* (^3^)9
-phone rings-
"Yea?"
"Hey!"
"Oh Hey!" lol its him what a coincidence :"D stupid cupid |D
"Could you come over to help me out with some homework?"
~~~~~~~~~~~*chance* *opportunity* *quality time* :D
"I cant right now" x'D 
"Oh really? What are you doing?"
"Selling things on ebay" :'D
-rejecteeeedddd-
"...Do you know where they sell pants for a dinner ocassion?"
"Mmmm what kind of dinner ocassion?"
"Im.... dining with my girlfriends family"
---paayyybaaaack-

ahaha :"D some more?? x"D

Yesterday....
"Viri , be honest." Dad asks, Mom listens attentively  "Do you have a boyfriend? It's kinda odd you dont at your age"
here we go again :"D
WHO SAID AGE IS A MATTER OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?! >D

Besides...so far all my love stories have something interrupt them (__ __;)

"You're so picky" A friend points out.
"Me?" I turn to look at him a bit surprised. "No, im not so."
"Oh you areeee. I know you. You wouldnt go off with just anyone."

Maybe...that's why.



My rollercoaster of Love |D

Now off to enjoy some Lovely Complex~ Just fitting XD





 

He sits down in front of her(a friend), almost kneeling. Stares at her wanting to hold her attention.

*do something viri! you know theres something odd going on! go go interrupt!*

She looks at him nervously smiling. "What?"

*Go now! You like him dont you??*

 His hand reached out to hold her face still, his fingers resting on her chin. She froze without relaxing her lips from that nervous smile. "What..are you doing?"

o_o *ish expecting* sits down on his bed and accidently breaks a hair ornament. "Oh my.." gets its "who's this from?" o_O 
*nevermind that! go interrupt!*

"Hey you guys now whos this from??" Walks over rapidly almost shiving the object to his face. He gently shakes his head without taking his eyes from her. *gets a lil desperate* *say more!* "Ah~ are you sure?? Can you help me find out who is this from??"

 "In a moment...i will." he answers almost absently & completely withdrawn to her.

"You broke it!" a sudden annoyed voice calls out to me as his mom enters the room. 

O_O; 

His hand draws her chin closer to him as he closes in as well. "Uh-uh im sorry" O_O *glued eyes on them* "I'll buy you a new one! yes!"

"Nono" * mom rambles on*

*think fast think fast! dont let them kiss!!**

"I'll buy you a new oneeee!!" >_<

*kiss*

||||*&%$;;;;O____O;;;#$%||||||

& she (a friend) smiles as nothing happened knowing a heart breaking was occuring right before her eyes.

I walk blank minded to him &---

wake up XD;;;
----------------------**

*realizes shes almost late to Japanese class rushes to change*
-kitchen-
"I'll eat fast cuz i gotta get there" *swallows down breakfast*
*bro stares at her*
"Did you use sharpie for that?" *points at her eyes*
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~D|
*goes clean her eyeliner a bit* sure man are picky (*---_---);

5 minutes later....

*bother is coughing like hes gonna throw up*
"That happens when you eat too much. You need to weigh down" (----_---)
"Eii hush it leave him alone, you do too." *mom trying to defend her son*
"It's true, your stomach will get tired of so much eating-" *dawns on her* "Did you just call me fat??" (o A o)
"No , I just said-"
"You called me faaaat dont change it" D"X

A month ago....

"The other day a friend told me 'hey viri's looking thin, she used to look better with more weight on her' '"
"He....said that?" =_=;
"Yea" ^^;
"Im looking bad now?" (; A ;)
"No No youre looking fine" o_o;;

men are pickyyyyy >D

I LOVE FF SERIES. BEAUTY DOESNT DISSAPOINT~ ♥


MOREEEEEE EXCELLENCE IN BEU~♥


SOOO IN LOVE~♥


I have so far played 7,8,10, crisis core~(but i havent finished it i hate endings XD;)  I should start from 1 & escalate till versus comes out yesssss 8D I would LOVE to live atleast one day in FF time XD let me be geek about it  D8< srsly i wouldnt complain about men in that world XDD

Moellux & FF = maximus orgasm 8D
Another reason to love Japan ♥ thankyoujapan X"3

A wanting & a truth + balance = a happy self



Just a thought...
When people ask me "What are you?" & when i respond "I mexican" they look at me oddly. "You dont look mexican" they respond. "What do I look like?" "I could say American but...european maybe?" "Im sure we all have blood from the east XD" (our east:europe)
Thing is...I dont know much about mexican culture or american "culture" in fact im very attracted to asian culture (some of their ways just go with mine so nicely~) but I couldnt fit completely to it(because of ways that just dont go with my ways). So then I thought...arent we all a mix of everything? We are so connected by technology & how our ancestors mixed up that we become a mix of different cultures. So when someone asks "what are you?" I'll just respond "the world" XD

whenever i learn about a new culture (i love learning about them) I want to take from it & mix it up with some other. A one-made Viri culture XD;  In some way the division of cultures has divided humanity in a selfish way of thinking like "Our culture is the best of the world!" kind of thing which isnt true for like i said each culture has its flaws & good attributes. I once told a friend each country is like a person, the government is the brain the rest of the people make up the heart. They must get along or else the body(country) will suffer its ways of leading right? Each person (country) has its flaws & attributes. When you meet another person (country) you must have respect for the other's ideas & not try to imply on them right? or else you wont get along. You can suggest, or give adivice to that other person but never impose or the other will go out in defense...quite a metaphor there but i find great logic on it. Wars wouldnt exist if governments understood this. Cultures, traditions there has to be respect even if you dont agree with it. You can suggest or give it advice or just share thought but never force a change on another person.

Yea...just some thoughts *(ο ω ~)*